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  • Writer's pictureKristan Jennings

Understanding Baby Cues: A Guide for New Parents

Updated: Oct 8, 2023


As a postpartum doula, one of the most important aspects of my job is helping new parents understand and respond to their baby's cues. Babies may not be able to communicate with words, but they have a variety of cues that can tell you what they need. Here, we'll explore some common baby cues and how to respond to them to ensure your little one feels safe, loved, and well-cared for.


1. Crying:


Cue: Crying is your baby's primary way of communicating. It can signal hunger, discomfort, tiredness, or simply a need for attention and comfort.


Response: First, check the basics - is the diaper clean, is your baby hungry, and is the environment comfortable? If those are not the issues, try soothing techniques such as gentle rocking, swaddling, or offering a pacifier. Sometimes, babies cry just to release tension, so holding them close and speaking softly can also help.


2. Rooting Reflex:


Cue: When you touch your baby's cheek, they will turn their head and open their mouth, seeking the breast or a bottle.


Response: This cue indicates hunger. Offer your baby a feeding, whether through breast or bottle, and ensure they latch on properly.


3. Sucking on Hands or Fingers:


Cue: Babies often suck on their hands or fingers when they're hungry, or it can be a self-soothing mechanism.


Response: If it's not time for a feeding, consider offering a pacifier to satisfy their need to suck. If it's hunger, feed them accordingly.


4. Eye Contact and Smiling:


Cue: As your baby grows, they'll start making eye contact and even smile to interact and bond with you.


Response: Engage with your baby by making eye contact, talking, and smiling back. This strengthens the parent-child connection and encourages social development.


5. Fussing or Grunting:


Cue: Sometimes, babies make fussy or grunting sounds when they're gassy, uncomfortable, or need to have a bowel movement.


Response: Gently massage your baby's tummy, try bicycle leg movements, or hold them in a tummy-down position to help with gas. If needed, change their diaper if they've soiled it.


6. Arching Back or Turning Away:


Cue: If your baby arches their back or turns away, they might be overstimulated or in need of a break.


Response: Move to a quieter, dimmer environment and provide gentle, soothing motions to help your baby relax.


7. Clenched Fists and Tensed Body:


Cue: Clenched fists, a tense body, or a furrowed brow can signal discomfort or frustration.


Response: Check for any discomfort such as a tight diaper, hair wrapped around fingers or toes, or clothing that's too tight. Provide comfort and hold your baby close.


8. Yawning and Rubbing Eyes:


Cue: These are classic signs of tiredness.


Response: Create a calming bedtime routine that includes swaddling, dimming the lights, and gentle rocking to help your baby fall asleep.


Remember, every baby is unique, and cues may vary from one child to another. Pay close attention to your baby's signals and respond with love and care. Trust your instincts as a parent, and don't hesitate to seek support from a postpartum doula or healthcare provider when needed. Your loving and attentive response to your baby's cues is the foundation of a strong parent-child bond.

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